OUR INVITATION TO YOU
We of Overeaters Anonymous have made a discovery.
At the very
first meeting we attended,
we learned that we were in the clutches of
a dangerous illness, and that willpower,
emotional health, and
self-confidence, which some of us
had once possessed, were no
defense against it.
We have found that the reasons for the illness
are unimportant. What
deserves the attention of the still-suffering
compulsive overeater is
this: THERE IS A PROVEN, WORKABLE
METHOD BY WHICH WE
CAN ARREST OUR ILLNESS.
The OA recovery program is patterned after
that of Alcoholics
Anonymous. We use AA's Twelve Steps and
Twelve Traditions,
changing only the words "alcohol" and "alcoholic"
to "food" and
"compulsive overeater."
As our personal stories attest, the
Twelve Step program of recovery
works as well for compulsive overeaters
as it does for alcoholics.
Can we guarantee you this recovery?
The answer is simple . If you
will honestly face the truth about yourself
and the illness; if you will
keep coming back to meetings to talk and
listen to other recovering
compulsive overeaters; if you will
read our literature and that of
Alcoholics Anonymous with an open mind;
and most important, if
you are willing to rely on a power greater
than yourself for direction in
your life, and to take the Twelve
Steps to the best of your ability, we
believe you can indeed join the ranks of
those who recover.
To remedy the emotional, physical and spiritual
illness of compulsive
overeating we offer several suggestions,
but keep in mind that the
basis of the program is spiritual,
as evidenced by the Twelve Steps.
We are not a "diet and calories" club.
We do not endorse any
particular plan of eating. Once we
become abstinent, the
preoccupation with food diminishes and
in many cases leaves us
entirely. We then find that,
to deal with our inner turmoil, we have to
have a new way of thinking, of acting
on life rather than reacting to
it--in essence, a new way of living.
From this vantage point, we begin the Twelve
Step program of
recovery, moving beyond the food and the
emotional havoc to a fuller
living experience. As a result
of practicing the Steps, the symptom of
compulsive overeating is removed on a daily
basis, achieved through
the process of surrendering to something
greater than ourselves; the
more total our surrender, the more
fully realized our freedom from
food obsession.
Here are the Steps as adapted for Overeaters Anonymous:
1. We admitted we were powerless
over food -
that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power
greater than ourselves
could
restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our
will and our lives
over
to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves
and to another human being
the
exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have
God remove
all
these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons
we had harmed,
and
became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such
people wherever possible,
except when
to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory
and,
when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation
to improve our conscious
contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for
knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening
as the result of these steps,
we tried to carry this message to compulsive overeaters and to
practice these principles in all our affairs.
"But I'm too weak. I'll never make
it!" Don't worry, we have all
thought and said the same thing.
The amazing secret to the success
of this program is just that: weakness.
It is weakness, not strength,
that binds us to each other and to a higher
power and somehow gives
us the ability to do what we cannot do
alone.
If you decide you are one of us, we welcome
you with open arms.
Whatever your circumstances, we offer you
the gift of acceptance.
You are not alone any more.
Welcome to Overeaters Anonymous.
Welcome Home!
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