HOW IT WORKS
Rarely have we seen
a person fail who has thoroughly followed our
path. Those
who do not recover are people who cannot or will not
completely give themselves
to this simple program, usually men and
women who are constitutionally
incapable of being honest with
themselves.
There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault; they
seem to have been
born that way. They are naturally incapable of
grasping and developing
a manner of living which demands rigorous
honesty. Their chances
are less than average. There are those, too,
who suffer from grave
emotional and mental disorders, but many of
them do recover if
they have the capacity to be honest.
Our stories disclose
in a general way what we used to be like, what
happened, and what
we are like now. If you have decided you want
what we have and are
willing to go to any length to get it -- then you
are ready to take
certain steps.
At some of these we
balked. We thought we could find an easier,
softer way.
But we could not. With all the earnestness at our
command, we beg of
you to be fearless and thorough from the very
start. Some
of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas and the result
was nil until we let
go absolutely.
Remember that we deal
with food -- cunning, baffling, powerful!
Without help it is
too much for us. But there is One who has all power
-- that One is God.
May you find Him now!
Half measures availed
us nothing. We stood at the turning point. We
asked His protection
and care with complete abandon.
Here are the steps we took, which are suggested as a program of recovery:
1.We admitted we were powerless
over food -- that our lives had become
unmanageable.
2.Came to believe that a Power
greater than ourselves could restore us
to sanity.
3.Made a decision to turn our
will and our lives over to the care of God
as we understood Him.
4.Made a searching and fearless
moral inventory of ourselves.
5.Admitted to God, to ourselves,
and to another human being the exact
nature of our wrongs.
6.Were entirely ready to have
God remove all these defects of
character.
7.Humbly asked Him to remove our
shortcomings.
8.Made a list of all persons we
had harmed, and became willing to make
amends to them all.
9.Made direct amends to such people
wherever possible, except when to
do so would injure
them or others.
10.Continued to take personal inventory
and, when we were wrong,
promptly admitted
it.
11.Sought through prayer and meditation
to improve our conscious
contact with God as
we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of
His will for us and
the power to carry that out.
12.Having had a spiritual awakening
as the result of these steps, we tried
to carry this message
to compulsive overeaters and to practice these
principles in all
our affairs.
Many of us exclaimed,
"What an order! I can't go through with it."
Do not be discouraged.
No one among us has been able to maintain
anything like perfect
adherence to these principles. We are not saints.
The point is that
we are willing to grow along spiritual lines. The
principles we have
set down are guides to progress. We claim spiritual
progress rather than
spiritual perfection.
Our description of
the alcoholic, the chapter to the agnostic, and our
personal adventures
before and after make clear three pertinent
ideas:
a) That we were compulsive
overeaters and could not manage our own
lives.
b) That probably no
human power could have relieved our compulsion.
c) That God could
and would if He were sought.